The leadership habit most people skip. The other night, I walked past the kitchen and saw one of my daughters helping her sister with homework. No drama. No complaints. Just steady patience. She leaned over and said, “Let’s try it this way,” and walked her through the problem step by step. Later that evening, when we had a quiet moment, I pulled her aside. “Earlier tonight, while you were helping your sister with math (Situation), I noticed how calm and patient you were (Beha

Teamwork, friendly rivalry, and the hidden strengths that show up when the stakes are sweet. If you’ve ever watched a gingerbread house competition unfold, you know the stakes get very real, very fast. Suddenly, people who were quiet in meetings are engineering load-bearing gumdrop roofs… and the “non-creative” folks are designing architectural masterpieces out of pretzels and icing. But here’s what we love most about these moments: Friendly competition reveals hidden strengt

Why connection, belonging, and shared rituals make better leaders. Every family has a holiday tradition. For my family, it’s bundling up, grabbing hot chocolate, and heading out to see the Santa parade every December — snowflakes, marching bands, twinkling lights, and all. It’s a simple tradition, but it always reminds us of something important: everyone shows up for a reason.  Some come for the atmosphere, some for the music, some for the memories… and some just for the cand