The Best Leaders Make Time for What Matters

Sometimes being fully present with your family is the most important leadership move you can make.

Last weekend, I took my daughters to see Hoppers.

Popcorn. Movie theatre snacks. The usual debate over what’s “too much butter.” Honestly, it was one of those simple weekends that ends up meaning a lot more than you realize at the time.

And somewhere between the previews and the drive home, I caught myself thinking about how easy it is for adults—especially leaders—to convince themselves they’re “too busy” for small moments like that.

Work deadlines. Travel. Projects. Emails. Schedules. There will always be another reason to postpone time with people who matter.

But leadership isn’t only about showing up at work. It’s also about showing up consistently at home.

I’ve worked with a lot of successful leaders over the years. The ones who seem most fulfilled usually understand something important: You can be ambitious and still be present.

In fact, I’d argue the ability to be fully present—whether with your team, your spouse, your kids, or your friends—is becoming one of the most undervalued leadership skills there is.

People remember attention. They remember presence. They remember how you made them feel when you were with them.

Sometimes the best thing a leader can do is put the phone away for two hours and eat overpriced popcorn with their kids.

Honestly, I highly recommend it.

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